Cons of dating a military guy

01 Jan

I've learned over the years that some people go crazy over a man in uniform. Because of this, women can leap too quickly into the relationship.

He just got back from Afghanistan and decided that he wants to be married within the next two years.

I've heard many stories of soldiers being unfaithful, and I was wondering with him being only 21, should I be concerned?

Cons: gone a long time, danger of death or being crippled, stress from line of work, long distance relationship.

So that being said, do the pros out weigh the cons?

Army in a few months, and I'm curious if it is a positive thing to girls or not.Pros: steady job, the uniform, always in good shape, sense of duty and honor, opportunities for advancement.Or is there too much commitment to date a guy who is going to spend as much as a year at a time on the opposite end of the planet getting shot at?