Dating rules for boys

15 Aug

If you’re dating a Swedish guy you should be aware that he probably won’t try to woo you in the classical ways.If you would have asked someone you know to go out for drinks, that would have been very difficult to say that it’s not a date, which is why goes well, you’ll likely start texting each other a couple of times a day.I might add that texting is the preferred channel of communication with Swedish guys.No, I’m not going to be nosey, rude or obsessive about it.But, if my daughter’s phone just happens to be laying on the table, and I see she’s gotten a text, I might take a look at it.

I will ask you a lot of questions and make sure you know that I know how special my daughter is.

When you get to know our daughter, you’ll get to know us too.

He’d never assume that you won’t be able to get over that puddle of water without his help.

Of course, this gives a generalized picture, and I’ve heard of people meeting each other in other ways (Hannes and I have a different story, I’ll tell you some other time).

Assuming that things went well at the club, sometime in the next few days one of you (it might just as well be the girl as the boy) will text the other and ask them out for a The fact that both of you are aware that you’re on a date while simultaneously pretending that it’s not a date can make things quite awkward, but that’s how it’s done.

To keep the conversation non-datish, the subjects you talk about are usually very neutral ones such as the housing market, Stockholm versus Gothenburg, how great your i Phones are, or how much the public transportation system irritates you (actually, the Swedish public transportation system is among the best ones in the world).