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22 May

When you have rough sex with your girl, it shows off your confidence and your manly, wild side which can turn her on and rekindle the raw sexual desire in her. Well, that’s something you need to talk to her about.

On the other hand, a lover who plays a submissive part in the relationship or in real life may get more pleasure by taking control in bed or by playing the dominant partner while having rough sex.

Rough sex doesn’t have to be a means to abuse each other or feel powerful.

What’s rough to one person could be tame to another.

If you’re seeing someone for a while, and they confess that they love rough sex, don’t just grin widely and assume you know what they expect you to do in bed. Rough sex is the type of sex where you involve pain in the sexual act, to increase sexual pleasure!

[Read: 10 ways to make long term sex feel like a sexy one night stand] People who love rough sex get the sexual high, more from the pain they experience than the sexual pleasure they feel.

It’s definitely not a bad thing though, because every once in a while, a change in routine in any relationship can make lovemaking a lot more sexy and alive.

[Read: 13 untold sex secrets you really need to know] The psychological thrill of rough sex One of the sexier things about rough sex is how contagious it is in bed.

If you claw your lover’s back with your nails, the rage they experience will subconsciously force them to reciprocate your rough moves with their own, which can lead to a heightened sexual experience for both of you.

[Read: How to satisfy a woman in bed and make sex more exciting for her] Rough sex for the calm lover If you’re someone who isn’t used to the idea of hurting a lover while making love *in a controlled environment*, the idea of rough sex may sound gross and appalling, even frightening.

But you’d never know how powerful you feel or how sexually arousing the act can be until you try it.